Stephen Stearns

Professio sano in vitam sanam (on balancing work and life) - https://www.calnewport.com/blog/2022/10/21/professio-sano-in-vitam-sanam-on-balancing-work-and-life/ ( via https://stearnslab.yale.edu/designs-learning - Designs for Learning )

ultimatum from Wife to Husband : “I want you to promise not to work nights or weekends: you need to be sharing the parenting, and your child needs a father. If you don’t agree, I will divorce you.”

Stearns listened. “For the next twenty years I did not work nights or weekends, and I spent thousands of delightful hours with our sons while they were growing up,” he recalls. “She was very wise, and I am grateful to her.”